1 Kings 3:16-28
16 One day two women[a] came to King Solomon, 17 and one of them said:
Your Majesty, this woman and I live in the same house. Not long ago my baby was born
at home, 18 and three days later her baby was born. Nobody else was there with us.
19 One night while we were all asleep, she rolled over on her baby, and he died. 20 Then
while I was still asleep, she got up and took my son out of my bed. She put him in her
bed, then she put her dead baby next to me.
21 In the morning when I got up to feed my son, I saw that he was dead. But when I
looked at him in the light, I knew he wasn’t my son.
22 “No!” the other woman shouted. “He was your son. My baby is alive!”
“The dead baby is yours,” the first woman yelled. “Mine is alive!”
They argued back and forth in front of Solomon, 23 until finally he said, “Both of you say
this live baby is yours. 24 Someone bring me a sword.”
A sword was brought, and Solomon ordered, 25 “Cut the baby in half! That way each of
you can have part of him.”
26 “Please don’t kill my son,” the baby’s mother screamed. “Your Majesty, I love him
very much, but give him to her. Just don’t kill him.”
The other woman shouted, “Go ahead and cut him in half. Then neither of us will have
27 Solomon said, “Don’t kill the baby.” Then he pointed to the first woman, “She is his
real mother. Give the baby to her.”
28 Everyone in Israel was amazed when they heard how Solomon had made his
decision. They realized that God had given him wisdom to judge fairly.
Prayer: Gracious God — as we come to worship you this morning – we give thanks to you for
the gift of life through our mothers. On this spring day let us again give praise to You and
thanks to our moms. Amen
- My mother was very influential in my life!
a. My mother taught me RELIGION: “You better pray that will come out of the carpet.”
b. My mother taught me LOGIC: “Because I said so, that’s why.”
c. My mother taught me STAMINA: “You’ll sit there until ALL that spinach is gone.”
- A woman columnist for the Los Angeles Times wrote about the influence her mother had on
her. She said her mamma taught her several rules for being a perfect lady:
i. Mind your manners and always write “thank you” notes.
ii. Brush your hair.
iii. Appearance matters.
iv. Never marry a man in order to change him.
v. Stand up straight and clean your fingernails.
vi. Eat everything on your plate and remember the starving children in the world.
vii. Speak up.
- Ask the congregation what their mother taught them.
- U.S. President Woodrow Wilson declared May 8, 1914, the second Sunday in May, as a
special day to honor the nation’s mothers, especially those who had lost their sons to war.
- Anna Marie Jarvis and fellow members of the Methodist Episcopal Church led the charge to
make Mother’s Day an official observance. When Andrew’s Methodist Church of Grafton,
W.Va., held the state’s first official Mother’s Day on May 10, 1908, Jarvis marked the victory
by bringing in 500 carnations, honoring her late mother, who had been a leader in the initial
efforts to mark the occasion.
- The interesting story is that the original plan for Mother’s Day was a simple carnation
(a tightly bound flower that symbolizes the tightness of a mother’s love) and a
handwritten note of love to mom. Then Hallmark got a hold on the idea – and we
are all aware of the change that occurred.
a. Mothers have a powerful influence on their children and it is reflected in the amount of
attention Mothers get that Fathers don’t. Did you realize that there are more cards
sent on Mother’s Day than on Father’s Day?
b. There are more phone calls made on Mother’s Day to moms than there are on Father’s
Day to dads.
- Though gift- and card-buying and secular activities abound, the church still plays a
prominent role in Mother’s Day.
- This raises some questions about how to keep the focus on worshipping God, while
celebrating and honoring the gifts of mothers.
- The answer seems obvious: Just turn to the Bible. We hardly have to turn a page before
encountering Eve, the mother of all, in the second chapter of Genesis. And what a
dysfunctional family that became – older brother gets angry at younger brother and kills
him. Genesis 4
- There are scant tender moments or lovingly sentimental words from mother’s especially in
the Old Testament
a. For the most part, biblical mothers face daunting hardships, and many were smart,
savvy and occasionally, ruthless.
b. The majority of accounts in the Hebrew Scriptures involve the relationship of mothers
and sons and questions of power and dynasty.
c. With the exception of Mary, mother of Jesus, the Christian texts offer few developed
stories involving motherhood.
- This morning, however, we are reading about a couple of women who don’t usually come to
mind on Mother’s Day. In 1 Kings chapter 3 we are told that the two women came before
King Solomon to ask him to judge and render a decision on a very dark and troublesome
- Solomon is a teen-ager when he becomes king. Solomon loves God, and he follows the good
advice that his father David gave him. God is pleased with Solomon, and so one night God
says to Solomon in a dream: ‘Solomon, what would you like me to give you?’
a. At this Solomon answers: ‘My God, I am very young, and I don’t know how to rule.
So, give me the wisdom to rule your people in a right way.’
b. God is pleased with what Solomon asks. So, God says: ‘Because you have asked for
wisdom and not for long life or riches, I will give you more wisdom than anyone who
has ever lived. (Solomon is credited with being the primary author of Proverbs.)
c. God also said the He would give Solomon what he did not ask for, both riches and
- A short time later two women come to Solomon with a hard problem. ‘This woman and I live
in the same house,’ explains one of them. ‘I gave birth to a boy, and two days later she also
gave birth to a baby boy. Then one night her baby died. But while I was asleep, she put her
dead child next to me and took my baby. When I woke up and looked at the dead child, I
saw that it was not mine.’
- At this the other woman says: ‘No! The living child is mine, and the dead one is hers!’ The
first woman answers: ‘No! The dead child is yours, and the living one is mine!’ This is the
way the women argue. What will Solomon do? What a quandary!
- He sends for a sword, and, when it is brought, he says: ‘Cut the living baby in two and give
each woman half of it.’
- ‘No!’ cries the real mother. ‘Please don’t kill the baby. Give it to her!’ But the other woman
says: ‘Don’t give it to either of us; go on and cut it in two.’
- Finally, Solomon speaks: ‘Don’t kill the child! Give him to the first woman. She is the real
mother.’ Solomon knows this because the real mother loves the baby so much that she is
willing to give him to the other woman, so the baby would not be killed. When the people
hear how Solomon solved the problem, they are glad to have such a wise king.
- During the rule of Solomon, God blesses the people by making the soil grow plenty of wheat
and barley, grapes and figs and other foods. The people wear fine clothes and live in good
houses. There is more than enough of everything good for everybody.
- We often read I Kings 3 and focus too much on the wisdom that God had given Solomon.
But looking at the story from another angle, we find some lessons on motherhood from the
point of view of the woman who was about to lose her child. Here are some important
lessons to learn about being a mom . . .
- No perfect mom
a. Moms can be too hard on themselves, but in this story, we learn a lot about just being
the best that you can be – not necessarily perfect.
- The two mothers in this story were prostitutes! The infant in this narrative is evidently
conceived under sinful circumstances. That grabs you!
a. Why did Solomon, king over God’s chosen people, even take the time to worry with
two prostitutes? These women, and the sinful men who paid for their services, were
living out of God’s will.
- Solomon was concerned about the women and the baby because God was
concerned about them.
a. I don’t have to convince you that the church should stand for moral purity.
b. But the church should also stand for forgiveness and restoration! Yet, when
forgiveness and restoration become personal, we Christians struggle with
this. We are pulled more towards our secular feelings instead of relying on
- These women were not living up to God’s ideals – yet God still loved them!
- If any of us had to wait for God to love us based on our performance, we would
all be out of luck!
- No, there is no such thing as a perfect mother, just like there aren’t any perfect ones among
the rest of us.
a. And if there’s anyone in whom we should be willing to overlook faults, it
should be our mother.
b. Why? Because they’ve overlooked so many of our faults. Could we possibly
- We need to lighten up on mom a little, and moms need to lighten up on themselves a little.
- God has answers for a mother’s problems
a. Don’t look for stress-free motherhood, it doesn’t exist.
b. From the pains of giving birth, to the empty nest, to grandchildren and beyond,
motherhood is stressful.
c. But there is good news! God is willing and able to assist moms in the problems they
- God not only loved those two prostitute mothers, He also loved the little baby in this story.
God dispatched His wisdom to Solomon to save the child.
- God has wisdom to spare for parenting responsibilities today. God can guide and provide for
mothers in all kinds of life situations – single moms, adoptive moms, step-moms, moms with
special situations, you name it!
- Nothing like a mother’s love. A mother’s love is sacrificial.
- The real mother in this story would rather see another woman raise her child than see it split
in two. You have to be willing to give up some things to be a good mother.
- Personal sacrifice is a pivotal part of motherhood. It begins by sacrificing their own bodies by
carrying the child around in their womb for nine months. No mother’s child ought to get over
- Our mothers fed us, nourished and protected us with their own bodies before we even saw
the light of day. I don’t know anyone else who loves me enough to carry me around for nine
- But a mother’s sacrifice doesn’t end there. They keep on giving. They give up sleep for the
midnight feedings. Mothers give up their personal goals to help their children achieve their
- We honor moms for all the giving they do. They remind us of God who is sacrificial and
giving. He gave His only Son for a world of wayward children.
- The story is told – out of WWII and the holocaust that took the lives of millions of people – of
Solomon Rosenberg and his family. It is a true story.
- Solomon Rosenberg and his wife and their two sons and his mother and father were arrested
and placed in a Nazi concentration camp. It was a labor camp, and the rules were simple.
“As long as you can do your work, you are permitted to live. When you become too weak to
do your work, then you are exterminated.”
- Rosenberg watched his mother and father marched off to their deaths, and he knew that
next would be his youngest son, David, because David had always been a frail child.
- Every evening Rosenberg came back into the barracks after his hours of labor and searched
for the faces of his family. When he found them they would huddle together, embrace one
another, and thank God for another day of life.
- One day Rosenberg came back and didn’t see those familiar faces. He finally discovered his
oldest son, Joshua, in a corner, huddled, weeping, and praying. He said, “Josh, tell me it’s
not true.” Joshua turned and said, “It is true, poppa. Today David was not strong enough to
do his work. So they came for him.”
- “But where is your mother?” asked Mr. Rosenberg. “Oh poppa,” he said, “When they came
for David, he was afraid, and he cried. Momma said, ‘There is nothing to be afraid of, David,’
and she took his hand and went with him.”
- If any of us have felt that we have had to walk through that valley alone so many times, you
will recognize that there is a hand reaching out to you, saying, “There is nothing to be afraid
of. I’ll go with you.”
- Hopefully you will recognize that there is Jesus Christ, the one who has already gone
through the valley of the shadow for you and made it possible for you to live forever.
- God extends His loving invitation in much the same way that a mother opens the doors of
home and calls her children in.
- God calls you, too.